PLEASE HELP ME!!! My boyfriends family is ruining my life!!! I NEED ADVICE!!!?

I'm so sorry you're in this situation but you do have options. Elope. That's right, you and your boyfriend go on with your plans to get married. The family will find out but they are of no consequence to you right now because they chose to believe the psycho teen. One day they'll come around but for now, go on with your plans to be happy and ignore them. Move if your husband agrees, just to get away from the neurotics. I hope you have your own family to go to for comfort and security. Good luck to you, but in the future, when any of his family does beg you for forgiveness, accept it but don't EVER get that close. They will always regard you as an outsider no matter how hard you try.